When your reactions feel bigger than the situation - and it’s starting to affect your relationships, sleep, or ability to cope

It isn’t that you don’t know what to do.

If you found this page after a hard moment tonight, you’re in the right place. You don’t have to know what to say. You’re not committing to therapy by scheduling.


You might be in the right place if you’ve tried therapy before and still feel stuck.

  • You replay conversations for hours or days

  • You panic someone is pulling away

  • You overreact and feel embarrassed afterward

  • You know why you react…but can’t stop the reaction

  • You shut down or go numb when conflict starts

You can reach out even if you’re unsure you want therapy.

How I work

  • we go slowly

  • you won’t be pushed into processing

  • you stay in control of the pace

Schedule a free 15-minute conversation

What the call is:

  • a brief conversation

  • you can ask questions

  • you decide afterward

You can schedule even if you’re not sure therapy is what you need.

It’s okay if you’re unsure - most people are when they schedule. You don’t need to know what to say.

What the call is not:

  • not therapy

  • no pressure

  • no obligation

Why this keeps happening

  • Your body reacts before thinking

  • Relationships activate it most

You don’t wait until things are worse

Most people don’t reach out when everything is calm and organized.

They reach out after:

  • a difficult conversation they can’t stop replaying

  • reacting in a way that scared or embarrassed them

  • panic, shutdown, or emotional overwhelm

  • realizing a relationship pattern keeps repeating

You are not expected to have a clear explanation yet. Reaching out early is often what prevents patterns from deepening.

What happens in this conversation?

  • You won’t be expected to share your whole story

  • I’ll ask a few simple questions about what’s been hardest lately

  • At the end, you decide whether you want to move forward - not me.

Fee Structure

This practice is primarily private pay, which allows for focused, individualized care without insurance-based limitations.

Current fees:
• Individual sessions: $175
• Free 15-minute consultation available

If this sounds like you, you don’t have to keep managing it alone.